CHOOSE YOUR FRIENDS WISELY :)

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Let me tell you something. I have a friend. I recently meet her, but it feels like I know her for a really long time, like as I know her forever. We are on the same frequency, I always have a really good feeling whenever I talk to her. I always smile. I feel good. If I feel good I always attract good things in my life. I love to talk to her. She has an extraordinary positive energy, I feel like I always get this positive energy from her. Surround yourself with positive thinking, likeminded people.

Usually people tend to talk about their problems, they are complaining all the time. But on the moment when you talk about problems, you talk about everything what you don’t want in your life, you are talk about not being successful and being unhappy, that shall you be. As through your thoughts, through your spoken words you will attract whatever you feel and think about. So be wise, and surround yourself with positive thinking, happy people and that shall you attract. It is strange how often people are afraid to be happy. Like they are ashamed to be happy. But there is happiness and joy in everyone’s life, you just have to focus on it, find it and stay in a positive state of your mind. When you are happy, you feel joy, people around you will look at you like you are insane, like there is something wrong with you. As a consequence, you won’t show happiness because you don’t want to be different. How you dare to happy when they feel miserable? How do you dare to smile early in the morning, when they are full of doubt, problems and sorrow. Don’t be the victim of their mind set. Dare to be different. Believe that you can, believe that with all your heart and you will get whatever you want.

Dare to be happy, dare to be full of joy, smile, sing and laugh, find the good in everything that is around you, be with happy people, learn from them, follow them. Smile, always smile. Your smile can change the world! Wake up every morning and be grateful for everything what you have and you will have in the future. If you are not grateful for the things what you already have, how can you expect to get more of that? Be happy and feel it with every fibre of your body and soul, feel the love and the joy, be creative and dare to live your life.

Change your state of mind, focus on your goals, on what you really want, be happy, surround yourself with positive thinking, successful people, and that’s how you shall be.

Love, Cristina

 

BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN!

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In order to have the life what you have always wanted, what you always desired, the most important is to really believe that you can have everything you wished for. That you can create it. You are the Creator of your life, everything that happens to you is the manifestation of your thoughts and believes. You are the One, you have the power to create the life what you have always wanted.

There is a story told by Sadhguru I would like to share with you. Read and learn from it. He said, that there was a man. He walked alone on a long road. He walked and walked and he reached a beautiful place, he thought that he is in Heaven. But on his long walk, he get tired. He thought: “I am tired. I wish I have a place where I can rest.” Than he looked around the beautiful place. He found a nice layer of grass under one tree, just the perfect place where he can rest. He laid down and suddenly fall asleep. When he woke up, he was full of energy and well rested. Then he thought: “I am hungry, I wish I have something to eat.” Than he imagine all the food what he would like to eat, and everything was there, he only had to reach out his hand and get it. Than he thought: “I am thirsty, I wish I have something to drink.” When he looked around, there was a nice creek, so he could drink fresh water. Than the man started to think: “How strange. Everything I had wished for I get it. Something must be wrong. Ghosts must be around and make all this happen.” And suddenly ghosts were there. Surrounding him. Than he thought: “oh, I will be in pain, I am afraid of ghosts” and pain was what he get. “Oh, I’m going to die.” And he died.

Whatever you really wish for, it will manifest. Your wish is a command to the Universe. It will make it happen. You don’t have to know “how”, it’s the job of the Universe to make it happen. All you have to know and to really truly believe is, that you will have it. And your wish is a command, and everything will happen as you wished for.

Be aware of your thoughts, they are powerful. Think good thoughts, strongly believe that everything you wished for is already yours or on its way, and you will have it. Stay focused and organized in your thoughts, visualize whatever you want and you will have it.

If I would say to you now, said Sadhguru: from the place where you are right now, fly. Will you fly? Of course not. But if I would say: stand up and walk, will you stand up and walk? Of course you will. As you know how to walk, you have done it before millions of times. But you don’t believe that you can fly, and you won’t fly. We are afraid of unknown, we are afraid of something new and we forget that we are the creators of this world. We create the world, as it is, with our mind, with our thoughts and believes.

Always believe that you can and it will be yours. Be aware of your thoughts, be aware of what you really want, don’t change direction from time to time as it will create confusion, stay focused in your mind on what you want, and it will manifest. Always.

Love, Cristina

 

YOU BECOME WHAT YOU THINK!

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This is one of the major truth: you become what you think.

Thoughts don’t become things, thoughts ARE things.” – Eric Michael Leventhal

So, be careful what you are thinking, as everything what happens to you is the manifestation of your thoughts. If you think about health, abundance and wealth and you feel this way, this will manifest in your life, you will be healthy, happy and successful. But if you have negative thoughts, you think about failure, bills and debt, more of this will come to you, as you will attract them with your thoughts.

You have the chance to change your life and to live the life your dreams, but for this you have to be careful about your thoughts. Think and feel positive, be happy and spread joy around you, and it will return to you in form of health, wealth and happiness. You are the creator of your own life. You ARE what you think.

It is in your power to change your life by changing your thoughts. Change the way how you think and feel about money, about relationships, about success and all this will inevitably come to you. Be grateful for everything you have, say “thank you” for all that is and all that will be yours.

“Be grateful for what you already have while you pursue your goals. If you aren’t grateful for what you already have, what makes you think you would be happy with more.” – Roy T. Bennett.

I wish you all good thoughts and a happy life.

Love, Cristina

 

DON’T LIMIT YOURSELF!

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Have you ever wondered why some people just have it all and why some, even though they work hard and they do all those things that have been taught them by motivational speakers, are just struggling and never move forward? Maybe they have a relatively good life, but they are tired, mentally and physically, have no energy, running here and there all day, and when finally they have some time just for themselves they can’t really enjoy it, as they are burned out. And others, with a minimum of effort, just have it all. How is that possible?

I have been there. I know what I am talking about. Maybe you have been there too. You work hard, have a nice car, a 2 storey house with a nice courtyard. But you are not happy. You barely see your family, you spend no time with your children and then suddenly you just realize that they are already grownups and they don’t need your or your help anymore. The neighbour next work works far less hours than you, put in minimum effort in everything he does and the grass is greener in his courtyard.

Why is all this happening? It’s all by law. The law of attraction. Believe it or not, it’s all by the law of attraction. I am sure that you have heard about the law of attraction. Especially in the past few years, since people started to be aware of the laws of the Universe. The energy, our thoughts are boundless. They work for us, whether we believe it or not, whether we believe in it or not.

Be careful what you think and feel, as your thoughts attract everything what you think in your life. Think good, think positive, believe and feel good and as a consequence good will come to you. If you always think negative, bad things will come to you. Learn and practice positive thinking and the Universe will give it to you. Your feelings are the reflection of your thoughts, so feel good all the time, smile and be happy. Find that one thing what you are grateful for and be grateful, say thank you for the things what you have in your life, say thank you for the things what will come to you in the future, say thank you for everything that is already yours. Don’t limit yourself and never let others to limit your vision. Everything is possible. But not just train your mind to think positive, you have to really feel good in order to make things happen. Think big, believe that you can make it and you are halfway there.

Always believe in yourself, believe in the power of your thoughts and your feelings. They will lead your way to the life that you always wanted, the life that you deserve.

Love, Cristina

 

A MORNING IN LONDON

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A weekday morning in London. 11.30 am. I’m in a crowded coffee place. Canary Wharf. The centre of the world. I guess. Or whatever. Freshly prepared natural food, they said. Strange, but what is really “natural” nowadays? It seems like everyone is in a rush. Like they are running against time. Time, the most valuable thing what we all have on this Earth. People in suits, trying to look smart, important and really busy. Not a tiny smile on their face. What’s wrong with this world? Business man and woman, talking business, grabbing their coffee or juice, maybe eating that freshly prepared, natural food.

And then there is this simple, friendly girl at the till. She smiles at me. Not because it is her job to smile on every customer, she gave me a real smile. I was slightly surprised. Because her smile was sincere. She is not wearing suits, she doesn’t want to look like someone who she is not, she is radiant. Then I realized she is pregnant. I’m waiting for my warm latte (I never drink hot latte) and my ham and cheese sandwich, looking for an empty table. Hunting for an empty table 🙂

And then, suddenly she is near my table. It’s not the first time that we met, I come here at this coffee shop in the middle of the City every Monday and Tuesday. It’s like a routine. But we have never talked before, except maybe a good morning and the usual “How are you?”

She is very excited, she is expecting her baby boy mid November. Oh, London. Big city life. She is young. Full of life and expectations. But London can be cruel, heartless. One wrong move and you are out of the game. But one good move, one good decision and then suddenly you are on the top of the world, I you have no idea how did you get there.

I really hope that she’s going to make it. In London. Probably somewhere else. We all deserve happiness, we all deserve wealth and a good life. It’s only a matter of a good decision making. Gratitude. Attitude. Faith.

Make good decisions in life. Always. As you deserve a good Life. And don’t forget to SMILE. Every day smile 🙂

Love, Cristina

SELF DISCIPLINE

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One of the hardest things to learn and master is self-discipline. I don’t know about you, but for me it was the hardest to learn. But when I was finally able to master and practice self-discipline, the results were amazing. You have to be determined and focused on what you want to achieve, you have to be willing to learn every day, improve yourself and learn to be disciplined, organized. It’s one of the hardest things, but one of the key steps in your road to success.

Your ability to discipline yourself to set clear goals, and then to work toward them every day, will do more to guarantee your success than any other single factor.”- Brian Tracy

When we are talking about self-discipline, is basically the ability to do what you should be doing. If you are able to develop self-discipline you will see that the following things will come easier to achieve:

  • Achieving your long-term goals, your dreams
  • Better or improved relationships with others
  • You will feel happier
  • More focused on your goals
  • You will be able to think differently, think positive and to attract success in your life

 

Start with small steps, identify your short term and long term goals, identify your passion, make a list of want to want to achieve, a list of your goals and where you want to be. Avoid procrastination, don’t be afraid of failure and always remember that failure is part of the road to success, is part of the learning process.

Building self-discipline will help you to grow and succeed in all areas of your life, don’t try to be perfect, just make all the best possible to be better and better every day. You will not be self-disciplined overnight, don’t get me wrong, so when sometimes you fail, don’t be discouraged but start all over again, as failure is part of the process. And also, when you succeed in something, learn to celebrate. Celebrate yourself, celebrate your success, reward yourself. You deserve that. So take care of yourself, love yourself, be proud of yourself and keep going on your road. Being self-disciplined, you will attract success in all areas of your life, in your personal life and in your professional life as well.

With self-discipline most anything is possible.” – Theodore Roosevelt.

Instill in your life gratitude, forgiveness and meditation, instill in your life SMART goals, set active goals, organization and time management, as well as persistence, and you will succeed.

We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” – Aristotle.

Love, Cristina

BE GRATEFUL!

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It’s been a couple of days since I’ve last posted on my blog. The reason is, that I have been busy. Busy with building my life and to take small steps towards my dreams. You might think that I am only preaching about changing attitude, about changing your thoughts and think positive. But you know what? It actually works. And if it works for me I believe that it works for you as well. I realized that when you start practising positive thinking and you change the way how you feel about yourself, things around you will change.

You have the power to manifest your dreams, you have the power to change your life. I keep repeating that you only live once, so live NOW! This is your time, no matter how old you are or what your circumstances are right now. That can be changed, it is a temporary situation. It is in your power to attract success in your life. Be focused, be disciplined, practice gratitude and you will succeed. Plant positive thoughts in your mind, avoid to think small of yourself, because you are powerful and beautiful just the way you are. We are all unique, with unique skills, knowledge, and that makes us beautiful. Have courage to follow your dreams, no matter what. Do good things every day and you will attract good things in your life. Have courage and move toward your dreams.

Believe in yourself! Believe that you can change your life and you are halfway there. When you wake up in the morning, do it with a smile on your face, spend the first few minutes after you wake up for yourself. Smile, be grateful for this another day what have been given to you, be grateful for your eyes, ears and lungs, be grateful for the beautiful things that you have in your life. Be grateful and start your day with positive thoughts in your mind and you will realize that your day will be amazing. Be thankful for all that you have and all what you will have. Be grateful for every struggle what you had and taught you something. Be thankful for the present, it’s all yours.

Be grateful and smile every day.

Love, Cristina

STAND UP AND FIGHT FOR YOUR DREAMS!!

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NEVER GIVE UP! FIGHT FOR YOUR DREAMS!!

You are down on your knees without any money, you are broken? You wake up every morning thinking about how to survive another day? You are full of doubt and negativity?

Well, let me tell you this. You are exactly where you meant to be in that moment. Down on your knees is the perfect position to pray, to start to believe and to be grateful. I ‘m telling you, if you pray, you believe that you can, you are grateful, and you have self-confidence, you can change your life, you can have the life what you always wanted.

But remember one thing. You have to be careful what you wish for, remember to take care of your thoughts. Your thoughts are powerful, I am keeping telling you that over and over again. Start by being grateful, faithful and start believing that you can, that you are able to do it.

Be grateful for your life, be grateful for your family, for your children, be grateful for the sunshine, be grateful for everything what you have. Mind your thoughts, start every day with a smile on your face, find a reason why you have to smile and why you have to stay positive. Even if right down you are broken, you have no money, your relationship doesn’t worked out, but that’s all right. You can change that! Maybe you don’t know it yet, but you are a beautiful, powerful person. Find your inner strengths and find the courage to stand up and fight for what you want, to fight for your dreams. Have no doubt, have no fear. If you really want to have a better life you will find the strengths to stand up and fight for it. Change the way of your thinking, change your attitude as what you think you attract. Your beliefs will manifest your reality. Go after what you want and stay focused on your goal.

Think about poverty, think about the debts, think about how miserable your life is and how small you are, think negative and negative you will attract. Don’t do this! Is in your power to change this. Train your mind to think positive, always, no matter what. Change your attitude, change your behaviour, change your bad habits, get rid of every negativity in your life, think positive, do good things and you will attract positive things in your life.

And who am I to preach? I have been there, trust me. And if you really want to change your life is in your power to do so.

Stand up and fight for your dreams! Take small steps, just move forward every day. Find your inner strengths and you will succeed. Work hard, improve yourself every day, surround yourself with positive thinking people, build good relationships and learn new skills every day.

You deserve to have the life what you have always wanted. It is in your power to achieve everything what you want. Never give up, stand up and fight for your Dreams!

Love, Cristina

YOU HAVE A DREAM? GO FOR IT!!

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You have a dream? Go for it! And I really mean it.

Now, you see, you only live once and you live now. Our time in this body, on the Earth and in this life is limited. Don’t waste time! It’s precious.

Develop yourself, learn something new every day, never ever let anyone to hold you back. Don’t hold yourself back! You are powerful, you are full of potential. Don’t be afraid to follow your dreams. One of my lecturers today said: Knowledge it’s power. And I have to agree with him. Learn everything what you can and what is necessary in order to achieve your goal. Work hard, move forward every day. Learn new skills, read a lot, have a routine. Be aware that you are capable of everything, just believe in yourself. Believe that you can do it. Learn from the old ones, from the best. Learn every day. Success will come.

Don’t measure success with money. Success is not about how much money you have in your bank account. Will come that too. If you feel happy every day, you are successful, if you are healthy you are successful, if you have a loving family you are successful, if you maintain good relationships with everyone around you then you are successful.

Be aware that your mind is powerful, so mind your thoughts. Think positive and believe that your dream will come true. If you believe that you can do it, you are halfway there, said Theodore Roosevelt.

Set your goals and move towards them. Do not be afraid of failure, have courage in your heart and you will succeed. Your dream might be something what only you can understand, what only you can see, but it doesn’t matter. You just go for it.

And what about me? One might said, my dream is too big, I want too much, I’m too old to achieve that. You know what? I WILL SUCCEED. I don’t exactly know how, but I will do it. I learn something every day. I never stop. I move forward. We all deserve happiness, wealth, health and success. We all can succeed. If we believe.

Love, Cristina

It’s imperfect, but this makes it perfect

Take control over your life. Change your habits and attitude and you will change, your life will change. Learn how to do this. It might not have been perfect from the first time, but that’s all right, this makes it perfect . Believe in yourself, you can do it.