We are what we THINK

We are what we THINK.

Just think about it for a moment: everything in the world begins with a thought, an idea in someone’s mind, we create our own world, our own reality. As a consequence we have to think, talk and act with a pure mind, as Buddha said once.

There is an old story about two wolfs , maybe you know it. Which one is stronger ? The one we feed, right ? If you plant negative thoughts, those thoughts will rule your life as they are strong. But if you feed your mind with positive thoughts, undoubtedly positive things will happen to you and your life will change, as you feed the right wolf.

Just think for a moment: if you constantly think on how miserable your life is, that you hate your job and your boss, that you lack money, health and happiness, you will attract more of it.

And if you recognize that through your thoughts you CREATE your reality, change them. Change them into positive thoughts, positive words and actions. Always say positive things, good things and undoubtedly, by the universal law of attraction you will attract more of it.

As where focus goes, energy flows. We are nothing but pure energy.

We, humans are the only living being on this planet who are able to change the world around us, to change our destiny, through our thoughts and our actions.

On that moment when you realise that the most powerful tool what you have are your THOUGHTS, you CAN change your world and you can change the world around you.

And here are the words, quoted by many well-known personalities during the history, reflect on them on this beautiful Saturday morning, and act or RE-ACT accordingly . Your life will change.

“Watch your THOUGHTS,

For they become WORDS.

Watch your WORDS,

For they become ACTIONS.

Watch your ACTIONS,

For they become HABITS .

Watch your HABITS,

For they become CHARACTER.

Watch your CHARACTER,

For it becomes your DESTINY. ”

Love, Krisztina

How to take that first step

For the past years there have been things that stopped me from doing what I really want. I’ve struggled to overcome fear of failure, I’ve struggled with money and I was constantly thinking about what other people will think of me if I let my voice to be heard.

But then I realised that is not my business what others think of me, I am the creator of my own life, my own happiness and success .

Here are some basic steps I followed and I recommend for you as well if you’d like to change your life. Start following your dreams and build the life what you have always wanted:

1. Surround yourself with positive minded people, who will lift you up and from whom you can learn πŸ’₯

2. No matter how good or bad you are, no matter what you do, people will judge you anyway. They will see what they want to see from their perspective. Therefore, what other people think of you , is non of your business πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰

3. Continuously develop yourself, invest in yourself, develop new skills and abilities. Be an expert in your field, learn from the best πŸ’₯

4. For success to happen it will take time. You won’t be rich and successful overnight. But you can’t just wait for success to happen. Set up your goals clearly, make a plan and take action every day 🌟πŸ’₯

5. Learn something new, try something new every day πŸ’₯

6. Don’t be afraid of failure. There is no such thing as failure. There are valuable lessons what you can apply when you try next time πŸ’₯

7. Be you, never give up, as nothing is impossible. We all deserve to be happy, healthy and wealthy πŸ’₯

8. Ask, believe and be prepared to receive πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

Love, Krisztina ❀

Dream + action = reality

If you have a dream, you want to change your life, than don’t be lazy, do something for it. Wake up every morning determined , motivated and grateful, make a plan ahead and the most important: take action. A dream without action will only remain a dream. Don’t wait with your arms crossed for something to happen, get up, stand up and go for it.

If you procrastinate, if you expect others to help you, if you are afraid to write that email, send that letter or make that phone call what might change your life, nothing will change. You will be on the same place, not moving forward.

Make a plan ahead, an action plan. Have a vision, imagine that you already accomplished your goal. Imagine how would you feel, how your life will look like. Nowadays, we have all the necessary tools in front of us to put the plan in action. Be clear on your goal and undoubtly, ideas and opportunities on how to get there will arrive. Don’t wait for things just to happen in your life. Take action, learn, develop yourself. Research and move forward constantly. Take your plan and start brake it down in small steps, small tasks to accomplish each and every day. If you put your plan in action, soon you will find that you are closer to your dream. One step closer every day. Be bold, be motivated, have faith and be grateful. Move, constantly move forward. If something doesn’t work out from the first try, that’s all right. It’s not a failure, it’s a valuable lesson. Give to others and you will receive back. Serve othrs and you will be happy, rich and satisfied. One step closer to your dream every day.

You can make your dream a realty by taking action.

What is that one thing what you can do and you will do today? Do it now.

Love , Krisztina

ME

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Imagine a 1st born girl in the family. Do you know what does it mean? Everyone expects you to be the best, do your best, be the smartest, the brightest, the nicest girl and you try really hard, you are doing the best you can to please everyone, do good to everyone, help everyone and embrace everyone. Except yourself. You raise the bar high. Then higher and higher. Then you will be exhausted, burned out. For what? You carry this baggage with you for almost 40 years. Taking care of everyone. Except you. You have the feeling that if you are not the best, the brightest, the smartest, if you don’t help everyone and do everything for people around you, you will be rejected. Then one day you realize that this is not love. Not an unconditional love. And you start to think. To wish for more. Dream about a different life. Β Wanting something just for yourself. In the beginning you feel ashamed, you think that you are selfish because you started to think about yourself first and then the others.

This was me. Full of doubt, lack of self-confidence, not happy about the way I look, the way I talk and walk. I had the strange feeling that everyone talks behind me, judging me, laughing on me. I never paid attention to the most important thing in my life: myself. All I knew was that I have to change. First of all myself. To change the way I was thinking. To love myself, respect myself, believe in myself. There is no one else like me. There is no one else like you. We are unique. With all our imperfections. This is what makes us to be perfect, just the way we are.

If I was able to change my life, you can too. You don’t need money for this!!!

This is the biggest limiting belief. If you are able to change your attitude, the way of your thinking, if you believe in yourself and you have the courage to take the first step to self-transformation in faith, the rest will follow, there is no doubt. Success will follow and money too. I use to think that everything is about money, everything moves around money. How wrong I was!! Tell me: do you need money to laugh? Do you need money to love unconditionally someone? Do you need money to breath in the fresh morning air? Do you need money to enjoy the sunshine? Do you need money to dance freely and tell me, do you need money to sing in the rain and feel extremely happy?

If you are able to change your old limiting beliefs into new, empowering beliefs, if you are able to change the way of how you think, to change your attitude, you decide to follow your dreams and to be happy, the money will follow too, this is just a bonus to all the blessings and good things what will come to you along the way.

I have all my thoughts and feelings on paper. Everything from the past 20 years. Took the shape of a book. Maybe soon I will have the courage to show it to the world. For you to learn. For you to change. To make the good decision. To avoid mistakes.

Until then: just simply believe in yourself and in your abilities. You can change your life. Reborn, like a phoenix. Stronger, wiser.

With love, Krisztina

There is always a way

If you know in your heart where you want to be and who you want to be, if you have the courage and the motivation to start, no matter how far and how hard it seems to be now, there is always a way.

Have faith, believe in yourself and be grateful, opportunities will arrive.

There is always a way. If there is no way, is called excuses.

Love, Krisztina

Re-charging :)

Holiday. Re-charging batteries, as my father would say. I’m well rested and happy. I’m ready for my new challenges. New workshops , motivation events and my very first book. πŸ™‚ yupiii.. I’m very excited about it. New chapter in my life, full of gratitude and faith. I believe in myself more than ever. I’m grateful for everything in my life, ups and downs, because this is how I became the person who I am today.

Learn to rest not to quit.

Love,

Krisztina

People will judge you anyway

The truth is that I’ve realized that no matter what you do, how good or bad you are, how rich or poor you are, if you wear make up or not, if you dress nicely or not, if you follow your dreams or not, people will judge you anyway. No matter what you do, there will be always someone who will judge you, dislike you, criticize you.

People tend to judge what they see, from their perspective, not who you truly are.

So why not just be yourself , do what you love, feel good and follow your dreams? Do whatever you feel right, give when you feel that you have to give and receive with gratitude what life has to offer you. Dare to be you, dare to ask, don’t be ashamed of being good, being different, being unique. Follow your dream, build your life , love yourself and allow yourself to shine. Because people will judge you anyway. It’s they’re problem, not yours.

Love, Krisztina

Anna’s art

My dear All. Please take time and browse the website of the artist, you will find many colourful and meaningful drawings. If there is any of the drawings you feel that touches your soul or have something to say to you, you can purchase the art work directly from the website or by contacting the artist.

Enjoy the beauty.

Love, Krisztina

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Listen to your heart

Listen to your heart. Always, no matter what. Being “rational “, making logical and rational choices is not always the right thing to do. If you make a choice based on logic, rational, what seems to be “normal ” but your heart is telling you something else, stop for a moment and think. Am I making the right choice? Following your instinct, following your heart, might not be the easiest way, but it is always the right way. Thoughts are coming and going, but emotions, the voice of your heart will last longer, will last forever. Before you make a choice, before you make a decision, stop for a moment only and think: does it worth it? Is this truly me? Is this what I really want ? Your mind is trained to follow the “logical”, “rational” things, but your soul, your heart will always know what is the best for you, what is the right for you. Always follow the voice of your heart and do and chose what makes You happy. Really and truly happy. Because that’s the most important thing.

Love, Krisztina

Every day is a miracle

I woke up unusually early this morning. Feeling happy and alive. That’s an amazing feeling. My heart sings and I feel that I am capable to achieve anything.

I feel extremely Grateful for this another beautiful day that has been given to me. Grateful for everything I have, for everybody who is in my life and for everything what is happening around me every day. Grateful for everything what is yet to come in My life.

I know, I feel deep down in my heart that today is somehow special. That today something wonderful is going to happen, that it will be a great and fulfilling day.

I can give to others, I can learn from others , I feel that I am ready for whatever it may come in my way. Have you ever had the feeling that you are special? You are amazing? And whatever you do, whatever you say, the action what you take is meant to help others, teach others and through this, makes you to grow and become happier, be more and be better?

Today is going to be a wonderful day. EMBRASSE today with calm in your heart and happiness. We all meant to be happy, we all deserve not just as β€œok” life, but a great, fulfilled life. A life full of joy and miracles.

May your day be full of miracles and blessings as well. My one is going to be wonderful today, no matter what the outcome of the day will be.

Love , Cristina