My vision is to inspire and motivate people, showing them that it is possible to change your life , by believing in yourself 😊
Author: Krisztina Konya
Krisztina is an author, blogger, company owner, life coach, mum and wife. With a strong academic background (BA (Hons) Business Management), she founded her company in 2018. The company provides consultancy services for those who would like to continue their studies and enrol into educational institutions in London.
Beside building up the company image, on personal touch, Krisztina provides help to people to boost their confidence, step out from their comfort zone, help them to set clear goals and in achieving them.
She is there for all those who want to chose the path of personal and professional development, by boosting their self-confidence and encouraging them to take action and not to be afraid to follow their dreams. Krisztina offers one-to-one life coaching and personal development workshops.
Krisztina's vision is to motivate and inspire as many woman and man as she can.
" I will always do it my way, no matter what,
And always keep moving forward, no matter what.
Even if only I can see it, I will always follow my dream.
My vision is to inspire, motivate people and to show them that if you find the reason "why", then you are able to change your life.
And I will do it...MY way :)"
This is one of the major truth: you become what you think.
“Thoughts don’t become things, thoughts ARE things.” – Eric Michael Leventhal
So, be careful what you are thinking, as everything what happens to you is the manifestation of your thoughts. If you think about health, abundance and wealth and you feel this way, this will manifest in your life, you will be healthy, happy and successful. But if you have negative thoughts, you think about failure, bills and debt, more of this will come to you, as you will attract them with your thoughts.
You have the chance to change your life and to live the life your dreams, but for this you have to be careful about your thoughts. Think and feel positive, be happy and spread joy around you, and it will return to you in form of health, wealth and happiness. You are the creator of your own life. You ARE what you think.
It is in your power to change your life by changing your thoughts. Change the way how you think and feel about money, about relationships, about success and all this will inevitably come to you. Be grateful for everything you have, say “thank you” for all that is and all that will be yours.
“Be grateful for what you already have while you pursue your goals. If you aren’t grateful for what you already have, what makes you think you would be happy with more.” – Roy T. Bennett.
Have you ever wondered why some people just have it all and why some, even though they work hard and they do all those things that have been taught them by motivational speakers, are just struggling and never move forward? Maybe they have a relatively good life, but they are tired, mentally and physically, have no energy, running here and there all day, and when finally they have some time just for themselves they can’t really enjoy it, as they are burned out. And others, with a minimum of effort, just have it all. How is that possible?
I have been there. I know what I am talking about. Maybe you have been there too. You work hard, have a nice car, a 2 storey house with a nice courtyard. But you are not happy. You barely see your family, you spend no time with your children and then suddenly you just realize that they are already grownups and they don’t need your or your help anymore. The neighbour next work works far less hours than you, put in minimum effort in everything he does and the grass is greener in his courtyard.
Why is all this happening? It’s all by law. The law of attraction. Believe it or not, it’s all by the law of attraction. I am sure that you have heard about the law of attraction. Especially in the past few years, since people started to be aware of the laws of the Universe. The energy, our thoughts are boundless. They work for us, whether we believe it or not, whether we believe in it or not.
Be careful what you think and feel, as your thoughts attract everything what you think in your life. Think good, think positive, believe and feel good and as a consequence good will come to you. If you always think negative, bad things will come to you. Learn and practice positive thinking and the Universe will give it to you. Your feelings are the reflection of your thoughts, so feel good all the time, smile and be happy. Find that one thing what you are grateful for and be grateful, say thank you for the things what you have in your life, say thank you for the things what will come to you in the future, say thank you for everything that is already yours. Don’t limit yourself and never let others to limit your vision. Everything is possible. But not just train your mind to think positive, you have to really feel good in order to make things happen. Think big, believe that you can make it and you are halfway there.
Always believe in yourself, believe in the power of your thoughts and your feelings. They will lead your way to the life that you always wanted, the life that you deserve.
A weekday morning in London. 11.30 am. I’m in a crowded coffee place. Canary Wharf. The centre of the world. I guess. Or whatever. Freshly prepared natural food, they said. Strange, but what is really “natural” nowadays? It seems like everyone is in a rush. Like they are running against time. Time, the most valuable thing what we all have on this Earth. People in suits, trying to look smart, important and really busy. Not a tiny smile on their face. What’s wrong with this world? Business man and woman, talking business, grabbing their coffee or juice, maybe eating that freshly prepared, natural food.
And then there is this simple, friendly girl at the till. She smiles at me. Not because it is her job to smile on every customer, she gave me a real smile. I was slightly surprised. Because her smile was sincere. She is not wearing suits, she doesn’t want to look like someone who she is not, she is radiant. Then I realized she is pregnant. I’m waiting for my warm latte (I never drink hot latte) and my ham and cheese sandwich, looking for an empty table. Hunting for an empty table 🙂
And then, suddenly she is near my table. It’s not the first time that we met, I come here at this coffee shop in the middle of the City every Monday and Tuesday. It’s like a routine. But we have never talked before, except maybe a good morning and the usual “How are you?”
She is very excited, she is expecting her baby boy mid November. Oh, London. Big city life. She is young. Full of life and expectations. But London can be cruel, heartless. One wrong move and you are out of the game. But one good move, one good decision and then suddenly you are on the top of the world, I you have no idea how did you get there.
I really hope that she’s going to make it. In London. Probably somewhere else. We all deserve happiness, we all deserve wealth and a good life. It’s only a matter of a good decision making. Gratitude. Attitude. Faith.
Make good decisions in life. Always. As you deserve a good Life. And don’t forget to SMILE. Every day smile 🙂
One of the hardest things to learn and master is self-discipline. I don’t know about you, but for me it was the hardest to learn. But when I was finally able to master and practice self-discipline, the results were amazing. You have to be determined and focused on what you want to achieve, you have to be willing to learn every day, improve yourself and learn to be disciplined, organized. It’s one of the hardest things, but one of the key steps in your road to success.
“Your ability to discipline yourself to set clear goals, and then to work toward them every day, will do more to guarantee your success than any other single factor.”- Brian Tracy
When we are talking about self-discipline, is basically the ability to do what you should be doing. If you are able to develop self-discipline you will see that the following things will come easier to achieve:
Achieving your long-term goals, your dreams
Better or improved relationships with others
You will feel happier
More focused on your goals
You will be able to think differently, think positive and to attract success in your life
Start with small steps, identify your short term and long term goals, identify your passion, make a list of want to want to achieve, a list of your goals and where you want to be. Avoid procrastination, don’t be afraid of failure and always remember that failure is part of the road to success, is part of the learning process.
Building self-discipline will help you to grow and succeed in all areas of your life, don’t try to be perfect, just make all the best possible to be better and better every day. You will not be self-disciplined overnight, don’t get me wrong, so when sometimes you fail, don’t be discouraged but start all over again, as failure is part of the process. And also, when you succeed in something, learn to celebrate. Celebrate yourself, celebrate your success, reward yourself. You deserve that. So take care of yourself, love yourself, be proud of yourself and keep going on your road. Being self-disciplined, you will attract success in all areas of your life, in your personal life and in your professional life as well.
“With self-discipline most anything is possible.” – Theodore Roosevelt.
Instill in your life gratitude, forgiveness and meditation, instill in your life SMART goals, set active goals, organization and time management, as well as persistence, and you will succeed.
“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” – Aristotle.
It’s been a couple of days since I’ve last posted on my blog. The reason is, that I have been busy. Busy with building my life and to take small steps towards my dreams. You might think that I am only preaching about changing attitude, about changing your thoughts and think positive. But you know what? It actually works. And if it works for me I believe that it works for you as well. I realized that when you start practising positive thinking and you change the way how you feel about yourself, things around you will change.
You have the power to manifest your dreams, you have the power to change your life. I keep repeating that you only live once, so live NOW! This is your time, no matter how old you are or what your circumstances are right now. That can be changed, it is a temporary situation. It is in your power to attract success in your life. Be focused, be disciplined, practice gratitude and you will succeed. Plant positive thoughts in your mind, avoid to think small of yourself, because you are powerful and beautiful just the way you are. We are all unique, with unique skills, knowledge, and that makes us beautiful. Have courage to follow your dreams, no matter what. Do good things every day and you will attract good things in your life. Have courage and move toward your dreams.
Believe in yourself! Believe that you can change your life and you are halfway there. When you wake up in the morning, do it with a smile on your face, spend the first few minutes after you wake up for yourself. Smile, be grateful for this another day what have been given to you, be grateful for your eyes, ears and lungs, be grateful for the beautiful things that you have in your life. Be grateful and start your day with positive thoughts in your mind and you will realize that your day will be amazing. Be thankful for all that you have and all what you will have. Be grateful for every struggle what you had and taught you something. Be thankful for the present, it’s all yours.
You are down on your knees without any money, you are broken? You wake up every morning thinking about how to survive another day? You are full of doubt and negativity?
Well, let me tell you this. You are exactly where you meant to be in that moment. Down on your knees is the perfect position to pray, to start to believe and to be grateful. I ‘m telling you, if you pray, you believe that you can, you are grateful, and you have self-confidence, you can change your life, you can have the life what you always wanted.
But remember one thing. You have to be careful what you wish for, remember to take care of your thoughts. Your thoughts are powerful, I am keeping telling you that over and over again. Start by being grateful, faithful and start believing that you can, that you are able to do it.
Be grateful for your life, be grateful for your family, for your children, be grateful for the sunshine, be grateful for everything what you have. Mind your thoughts, start every day with a smile on your face, find a reason why you have to smile and why you have to stay positive. Even if right down you are broken, you have no money, your relationship doesn’t worked out, but that’s all right. You can change that! Maybe you don’t know it yet, but you are a beautiful, powerful person. Find your inner strengths and find the courage to stand up and fight for what you want, to fight for your dreams. Have no doubt, have no fear. If you really want to have a better life you will find the strengths to stand up and fight for it. Change the way of your thinking, change your attitude as what you think you attract. Your beliefs will manifest your reality. Go after what you want and stay focused on your goal.
Think about poverty, think about the debts, think about how miserable your life is and how small you are, think negative and negative you will attract. Don’t do this! Is in your power to change this. Train your mind to think positive, always, no matter what. Change your attitude, change your behaviour, change your bad habits, get rid of every negativity in your life, think positive, do good things and you will attract positive things in your life.
And who am I to preach? I have been there, trust me. And if you really want to change your life is in your power to do so.
Stand up and fight for your dreams! Take small steps, just move forward every day. Find your inner strengths and you will succeed. Work hard, improve yourself every day, surround yourself with positive thinking people, build good relationships and learn new skills every day.
You deserve to have the life what you have always wanted. It is in your power to achieve everything what you want. Never give up, stand up and fight for your Dreams!
You have a dream? Go for it! And I really mean it.
Now, you see, you only live once and you live now. Our time in this body, on the Earth and in this life is limited. Don’t waste time! It’s precious.
Develop yourself, learn something new every day, never ever let anyone to hold you back. Don’t hold yourself back! You are powerful, you are full of potential. Don’t be afraid to follow your dreams. One of my lecturers today said: Knowledge it’s power. And I have to agree with him. Learn everything what you can and what is necessary in order to achieve your goal. Work hard, move forward every day. Learn new skills, read a lot, have a routine. Be aware that you are capable of everything, just believe in yourself. Believe that you can do it. Learn from the old ones, from the best. Learn every day. Success will come.
Don’t measure success with money. Success is not about how much money you have in your bank account. Will come that too. If you feel happy every day, you are successful, if you are healthy you are successful, if you have a loving family you are successful, if you maintain good relationships with everyone around you then you are successful.
Be aware that your mind is powerful, so mind your thoughts. Think positive and believe that your dream will come true. If you believe that you can do it, you are halfway there, said Theodore Roosevelt.
Set your goals and move towards them. Do not be afraid of failure, have courage in your heart and you will succeed. Your dream might be something what only you can understand, what only you can see, but it doesn’t matter. You just go for it.
And what about me? One might said, my dream is too big, I want too much, I’m too old to achieve that. You know what? I WILL SUCCEED. I don’t exactly know how, but I will do it. I learn something every day. I never stop. I move forward. We all deserve happiness, wealth, health and success. We all can succeed. If we believe.
Take control over your life. Change your habits and attitude and you will change, your life will change. Learn how to do this. It might not have been perfect from the first time, but that’s all right, this makes it perfect . Believe in yourself, you can do it.
I had a strange day today. It was one of those days. When you feel that it’s not really your day, no matter how hard you try. Did you ever had a day like this? That’s ok, I guess. To feel this way. Even when you decided in the morning that you will be happy the whole day long.
You read all those books, listen to all audio tapes and you try really hard to change your life. You are at the beginning of a journey, a journey of change, of acceptance and gratitude. No one said it will be easy. You will have days like that. When you feel tired. Take a small break. Make a revision about all those things what you have achieved since the beginning of your journey. If you have the feeling that you are stuck don’t be afraid to ask advice and guidance.
Let me tell you about this: it takes a lot of courage to ask help when you feel that you need it. If you really want to succeed, and to change your life don’t stop on your way. Have the courage to stand in front of someone with more knowledge, more expertise than you and ask for help, ask for advice.
I don’t know about you, but I was terrified at my first meeting (which eventually had been postponed). My heart was racing fast, my palms sweating and I had the feeling that I forgot even what I knew. What a disaster it was. Well, that can be a really embarrassing moment, especially when you decided that you want a career as a speaker, you know, to speak in the front of a crowd. And you feel lost in front of a single person. But that’s all right. I have made mistakes. I have learned how to do better, how to be better next time. How to walk, talk and behave the next time. Like this, trying your limits, facing your fears you will win. You will move forward. Face your fears. It takes a hell of a lot of courage. The first time is the hardest. For me it was. But I am prepared for the next one. Are you? Are you ready to face your fears? Are you ready to move one step forward toward your goal?
Be determined to succeed. Have the courage to ask help from the best. Learn from them, never accept rejection, try over and over again, move forward, accept constructive criticism and improve yourself. That’s the way how you will succeed.
Sir Henry Royce once said: “Take the best that exists and make it better”.
So, let’s just follow the advice. And we will all succeed. As everybody deserves success, appreciation, happiness and wealth.
Now, you see, motivational speakers, influencers on social media, authors, psychologists, spiritual leaders and successful entrepreneurs are out there (many of them), trying to “help” you to be successful, showing you the way, telling you how and what to do in order to be healthy, wealthy and happy.
But the reality is, that your life only depends on YOU. It only depends on you if you will be successful or not. It all depends on what YOU WANT.
I know exactly what I want! Do you know?
I start now all over my life, again, as now I know EXACTLY what I want, I know where I want to be and I realized that it only depends on me if I will get there or not. I decided to not let anyone to bring me down again, don’t let anyone to make me feel insecure in what I am doing. If my dream is big? Yes, it is. And you should DREAM big as well, nothing it’s impossible. The only one who can limit your possibilities is YOU!
It is in your power to change your life and to live the life you always wanted, by changing your attitude.
In my life there have been many stages, from being homeless on the streets of Budapest, selling all I have to get a hotel room and wash my cloth, to look clean and decent and to get a job. I have been working 16 hours a day for many years, as I needed the money for food, rent and clothing. I was desperate, sad and mad on the world, on my family, on my friends. I was mad even on myself, how can I be so stupid. Later on, when in London, I was renting out cheap, disastrous looking rooms with no heating and dirty matrasses for horrible prices, as I needed the money. The money was not enough, I hated what I was doing and I was unhappy. I knew that I have to change my life. But I had the same wrong attitude toward success, toward life. I used to complain about everything, about how miserable I feel, nothing worked out. I even started my own cleaning business. I failed of course. Again. Because I didn’t know what I was doing. I was doing all wrong.
I was only dreaming about success, about financial freedom, about wealth and happiness, expensive holidays and sunny places. I knew that I want more. I know that I deserve more. YOU deserve more, you deserve the best as well!
I realized that I have to improve myself, I need to gain more knowledge, I need more confidence and good relationships if I want to succeed. I have started college, I performed quite well. And I loved every minute of it. Then I have started to study at the University. But again, I realized that I want something more. Something better. You see, I have made the same mistake like many of you. You climb a mountain, you put effort and hard work in everything you do and when you reach the top, looking around, you realize that the view it’s ok, but it’s still not what you want. So, I have learned another lesson. YOU HAVE TO KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT AND WHAT YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE! You have to know exactly what your goals are.
I wanted more than that. I wanted something more than a qualification or a degree.
And finally I reached that point in my life when I knew exactly what I want!
Most of the people, including myself a couple of months ago, don’t know how to prioritize, and how to set goals. Long term goals. For yourself. Not for anyone else. No one cares about you, no one cares about your problem, about your life. Everybody is too busy with their own life, their own problems, own path.
Finally I knew exactly what I want. But there was a problem. I was afraid. But you know what? I was wrong. Afraid of what? Of failure? Really? I have failed so many times in my life, I have started everything all over again in my life so many times. So, I realized, that there is nothing to be afraid of. It was in my mind. The fear of failure. Practically I had nothing to lose, so why I am afraid of?
So, now, I take everything from the scratch and with the strong believe that this time I will succeed, with a changed attitude I have started my life again. I can, and you can, build up the life you always wanted, it is a matter of decision making, changed attitude toward problems and obstacles.
One might say if you were born poor you will be poor your whole life and if you were born rich you will be rich your whole life. But I would say, that with a changed attitude toward your life, success, money, happiness, wealth, you are able to change your life. It will be easy? I never said that. But it’s not impossible.
Start to live your dream, make every day a small step to reach your goal, never give up, never look back and never be afraid. My mentors are people I have never meet in person and probably I will never meet them. But that’s ok, as I can learn a lot from them. Choose a mentor, chose a person you admire and do what he/she had done to be successful. Prove wrong all those who don’t believe in you, prove wrong all those who said that you can’t make it. Yes, you can!