Self-talk

self talk

How do you talk to yourself? What your inner voice is telling you? Comparing yourself with others? Talking negatively? Telling you that it is impossible? You are not good enough? You don’t know how to get what you want? You will never get what you want?

STOP whining. Really. Start to think differently about yourself, give yourself a chance. Make a bet, bet on yourself. You will win big trust me. If you really want to make a comparison, compare yourself with your old self. Look how far you have come. Look how many amazing things you have accomplished so far. Never compare yourself with others. Be gentle to yourself, talk positively about yourself. You are doing great. You can do it. You are worthy and unique. Believe that you can and you are halfway there.

Let`s do it our way!!

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Love,

Krisztina

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Taking advice

advice

How many times friends, family gives you advice without you even asking them? But have you ever wonder how people tend to give us advice? Why they want to give us advice? And how comes that they would never take their own advice?  🙂

Often they give advice because they care about us, they want to protect us, they want us not to fail. Right? But the thing is, that they give advice based on their experience, their lives and their values and beliefs. Sometimes, consciously or unconsciously people give advice because they care, they want us to do better, to succeed, or sometimes to hold us back. True or not?

But at the end of the day will be YOU who can chose to take the advice from outside or not. Think carefully about the advice given to you, either if you asked for it or it has been given for you for free. Is this what YOU want? Is this who YOU are? Is this YOU who can`t do this? Because if one couldn’t do it or didn’t had the courage to do it, does this mean that YOU can`t? Because one failed and was afraid to try again, does this mean that YOU will fail too?

Be quiet. Listen the advice. And based on what YOU want take action. Don’t think low on yourself. If someone did not succeed it doesn’t mean that YOU won`t succeed. Be determined, know your vision, have a clear goal on where you want to be, select from the advice you get the one that will work for you. Try out new things, what you have never done before, don’t stop because you were told that is risky. Risky for who?

Have the wisdom to listen to the right person. If someone who never had a business, never dealt with a situation tells you that is risky and hard to have and run a business, would you listen to them? How do they know? They didn’t even try. Choose carefully from who you take advice, even is a family member or a friend. 🙂

Let`s do it our way!!

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Love,

Krisztina

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What is motivation?

motivation

In today`s post I will be more practical :))

Let me ask you a simple question: WHAT IS MOTIVATION?

Dictionary defines the word as “a reason or reasons for acting and behaving in a particular way”.

Now let me ask you again: what is the reason why you act as you do right now? It is because you wanted to do so, really truly? Or because you want to be loved, appreciated, to fit in the society, to please someone else?

On the moment when you find your motivation, you find your reason “why”, and we talked about this a couple of times so far, the you will be able to change your life. Then you will be able and you will have the courage to take that first step towards your dreams. Motivation is what drives us to achieve our goals.

So, what motivates YOU? Money? Recognition? Job satisfaction? Social status? Attitudes? Values? No matter what, after you know what motivates you, set your goals.

Now, here are some principles to follow in goal setting:

  • Set specific goals for yourself
  • Set challenging goals – there is no point to set an easy goal, as there will be no satisfaction when you reach it and you will lose the motivation to keep going forward.
  • You will need acceptance and commitment
  • Reward yourself after every goal accomplishment. When was the last time when you rewarded yourself? Think about it.

Now, as you probably know already there are three types of motivation:

  • Extrinsic – when you are motivated by money, awards, praise, recognition, benefits. Are you motivated by these? Because in this case, you will rely on external rewards to achieve motivation. Is this what you want? Is this good for you?
  • Intrinsic – this type of motivation will rely on your internal values and the reward of feeling good to achieve a positive reaction. How does this sound? Sounds like your motivation? Better than the extrinsic one? Worse? What do you think? In this case you will work hard to reach your goals, to move forward because of yourself. For your inner peace. For you to feel good J
  • Addiction – how about this one? When your motivation relies on both external and internal reward. How is this possible? Is this good or not so good? Being addicted. You decide. Make a good decision. It is a destructive type of motivation, because can lead to out-of-balance issues, like working too much, going too much to the gym, forcing yourself to the limits where there is no good for you anymore.

What motivation style would you chose? What works the best for you?

Find your right motivation, find the best reason “why” you want to change your life, why you want to be better, what makes you get out from the bed each morning full of energy and willingness to work toward your goal?

When you find the right motivation, the one which works the best for you, then you will be able to reach your goals. You will be unstoppable.

Let`s do it our way!!

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Love,

Krisztina

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Don’t stop

Don’t stop until you’re proud. Proud of yourself. You are doing great. Breath and look how far you’ve come. Learn to rest when you feel tired but never look back, never stop, keep moving forward.

Let`s do it our way!!

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Love,

Krisztina

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HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE READY?

you are ready

How do you know that you are ready to change your life?

When you wake up every morning feeling #grateful that you opened your eyes, feeling grateful for being surrounded by the right people, when you have that “burning desire” to show up, to do what you have to do in order to move forward.

When you feel it in every cell of your body: yes, this is my time, my day to #shine, my time to grow and reach the sky.

When you are exited and you can`t wait to put your #dreams in action, when you can`t wait to tick every bullet point on your to do list for the day, the week, the months and the year.

You are ready, when you acknowledge the NOW, when you know that there is no yesterday and no tomorrow. It is only the present moment. You breath, you are alive and ready. Then, nothing will be impossible. Then you will be you. Then you will be fearless and unstoppable.

With your thoughts you create your own reality. And you don`t care about what others will think about you. It is their own thoughts and feelings. It is not you, and not about you. It is about them. Their own fears, struggles. If they were not able to do it, what makes you think that you can`t? It was them, not you. You only will know if you can do it or not, by at least trying. And as Henry Ford said once: Whether you think you can or cannot, you are both right.

There will be always someone who will dislike or disapprove you. You are ready when you do not care anymore. You are ready to follow your own path. Your own destiny.

Be ready! You only live once in this lifetime. Live it the way you want it. Let your #energy flow, let your mind to be liberated form old and limiting beliefs and thought. You are ready when you feel alive, when you feel that the person in your body is really you.

Let`s do it our way!!

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Love,

Krisztina

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What if I can?

what if i can

Now you see, when you are not sure about yourself, not sure what is your path, have no goals and dreams, it is very easy for others to control you, judge you, disappoint you. Very easy to pull you down. When you expect to be recognised by others, loved, understood, looked after, you would do anything and become anything what is not you just to get a smile, a hug, a nice word. You would do anything to be loved. Am I right?

But on the moment when you became aware of yourself, and you put yourself first, and you start to pay attention on what YOU want, well then everything will change.

When you have no goals and dreams, but at one moment you say “I would like to be someone”, everybody around you will come like this: “oh, of course you can`t” or “come on, wake up. Back to reality.” Or “you are not good in this” or “you will fail”. Am I right?

How many times you`ve heard this? Think for a moment. Then think again: despite of all what others say, you will be like: WHAT IF I try? What if I can?

Wouldn’t be that an amazing moment of awakening? Awakening to life. To your life. Then, on the moment when you DECIDE that YOU CAN DO IT, then your life will truly start. Are you ready??

I believe that you can. I believe that each and every one of us can do it, each and every one of us deserve a good life. It`s only up to you really.

Life is full of choices. In your everyday life, you make hundreds of choices just in one single day. Am I right? Think about it.  What if you make the choice to change your life? Wouldn’t be that an amazing moment?

Every day you can choose joy, happiness, laughter, pain, suffering , negativity. Choose life! Choose to live! Choose happiness! Choose to be a better you today then you were yesterday.

Let`s do it our way!!

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Love,

Krisztina

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Self-development is a choice

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Here are some basic steps I followed and I recommend for you as well if you’d like to change your life. Start following your dreams and build the life what you have always wanted:

1. Surround yourself with positive minded people, who will lift you up and from whom you can learn 💥

2. No matter how good or bad you are, no matter what you do, people will judge you anyway. They will see what they want to see from their perspective. Therefore, what other people think of you , is non of your business 😉😉

3. Continuously develop yourself, invest in yourself, develop new skills and abilities. Be an expert in your field, learn from the best 💥

4. For success to happen it will take time. You won’t be rich and successful overnight. But you can’t just wait for success to happen. Set up your goals clearly, make a plan and take action every day 🌟💥

5. Learn something new, try something new every day 💥

6. Don’t be afraid of failure. There is no such thing as failure. There are valuable lessons what you can apply when you try next time 💥

7. Be you, never give up, as nothing is impossible. We all deserve to be happy, healthy and wealthy 💥

8. Ask, believe and be prepared to receive 🙏🙏🙏

Love, Krisztina

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