The funny thing is that whether you admit it or not, we tend to compare ourselves to others from time to time – some do this pretty often.
If you want a perfect recipe for low self-confidence and unhappiness – you just found it. Comparing yourself to others is not useful at all.
The other day I caught myself doing the same thing while scrolling down on social media. There are a lot of coaches, consultants, inspirational people out there, and at a certain point, I had a mild panic attack: OMG, how am I going to be visible in this crowd? They are all so beautiful, they in business for many years, with hundreds or thousands of followers, perfect smile and they all look soooo damn confident.
For a minute, I felt so small. Who am I to be here?
But then, you know what?
🧚 We are all here with a purpose; we are all beautiful in our own way, we are at a different stage of our lives, businesses. It is like comparing a complete beginner tennis player with the winner of Wimbledon.
🧚 I realized that the most important thing is to work around your strengths and see your true value. Being confident, believing in yourself is one of the key components of success. In a way, it is natural to compare ourselves with others, but the truth is that it will make us feel unhappy.
🤔 Question is: how do you stop comparing yourself to others?
⚡ Awareness – try to be aware when you start comparing yourself to others.
🛑 Stop – acknowledge the thought, then change your focus.
⚡ Count your blessings – focus on what you have, not on what you lack
⚡ No one is perfect – be ok with imperfection.
💞 Learnt to first, love yourself – F.L.Y, realize that you are enough, you are unique, beautiful and worthy just the way you are.
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