πŸ’« Comparing yourself to others πŸ’«

The funny thing is that whether you admit it or not, we tend to compare ourselves to others from time to time – some do this pretty often.

If you want a perfect recipe for low self-confidence and unhappiness – you just found it. Comparing yourself to others is not useful at all.

The other day I caught myself doing the same thing while scrolling down on social media. There are a lot of coaches, consultants, inspirational people out there, and at a certain point, I had a mild panic attack: OMG, how am I going to be visible in this crowd? They are all so beautiful, they in business for many years, with hundreds or thousands of followers, perfect smile and they all look soooo damn confident.

For a minute, I felt so small. Who am I to be here?

But then, you know what?

🧚 We are all here with a purpose; we are all beautiful in our own way, we are at a different stage of our lives, businesses. It is like comparing a complete beginner tennis player with the winner of Wimbledon.

🧚 I realized that the most important thing is to work around your strengths and see your true value. Being confident, believing in yourself is one of the key components of success. In a way, it is natural to compare ourselves with others, but the truth is that it will make us feel unhappy.

πŸ€” Question is: how do you stop comparing yourself to others?

Quick advice:

⚑ Awareness – try to be aware when you start comparing yourself to others.

πŸ›‘ Stop – acknowledge the thought, then change your focus.

⚑ Count your blessings – focus on what you have, not on what you lack

⚑ No one is perfect – be ok with imperfection.

πŸ’ž Learnt to first, love yourself – F.L.Y, realize that you are enough, you are unique, beautiful and worthy just the way you are.

Drop a ❀️ in the comment box below or DM me if you would love to know more.

Much love,

Krisztina

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Published by Krisztina Konya

Krisztina is an author, blogger, company owner, life coach, mum and wife. With a strong academic background (BA (Hons) Business Management), she founded her company in 2018. The company provides consultancy services for those who would like to continue their studies and enrol into educational institutions in London. Beside building up the company image, on personal touch, Krisztina provides help to people to boost their confidence, step out from their comfort zone, help them to set clear goals and in achieving them. She is there for all those who want to chose the path of personal and professional development, by boosting their self-confidence and encouraging them to take action and not to be afraid to follow their dreams. Krisztina offers one-to-one life coaching and personal development workshops. Krisztina's vision is to motivate and inspire as many woman and man as she can. " I will always do it my way, no matter what, And always keep moving forward, no matter what. Even if only I can see it, I will always follow my dream. My vision is to inspire, motivate people and to show them that if you find the reason "why", then you are able to change your life. And I will do it...MY way :)" Much love, Krisztina

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