Almost every choice that we make every day has its consequences, good or bad, in the future.

You prefer to stay in the known, familiar environment, making decisions based on past experiences or you are curious, adventurous, and ready to explore the unknown?

You are driven forward by your vision, pulled by the image of your future self, or your past is holding you back?

As for me, a couple of months ago, almost every decision I made used to be a battle between my present self and my future self, a battle between the two mindsets.

The old mindset is telling me:  you don’t know, you have never done that before, you are not ready. My future self is whispering in my ear: you are good enough, you can do it, it will be fun, it will make you happy, go for it.

My current self wants everything now, want it all and want it now.

💎 My future self is telling me to take the longest path, don’t skip stages, as I might lose valuable lessons along the way.

My present self is telling me to do it now, fast. Therefore, I am rushing, getting stressed, overwhelmed, anxious.

💎 My future self, being more gentle whispers: hey, enjoy the ride. 

And the truth is if sometimes I listen to my present self, the results are temporary, and it often turns out that the decisions I made, did not bring me any closer to my future self.

💎 When I make my decisions listening to the wiser future self, the results are for long-term, making me happier, more balanced, giving me a sense of freedom.

In the past few months, I caught myself listening more and more to what my future self is telling me. Not a surprise that I feel better, my decisions are more in alignment with my vision.

For you, to live a happy and balanced life, making decisions that are more in alignment with your soul purpose, here is a little exercise, that might help you.

Drop in the comments below, or send me a message with the answer to the following:

💎 Write down 10 things from your “future self” to your “present self”. 💎Put in the comments at least one 🙂

I am genuinely curious about it.

I wish you all a happy and balanced life.

Much love,


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Published by Krisztina Konya

Krisztina is an author, blogger, company owner, life coach, mum and wife. With a strong academic background (BA (Hons) Business Management), she founded her company in 2018. The company provides consultancy services for those who would like to continue their studies and enrol into educational institutions in London. Beside building up the company image, on personal touch, Krisztina provides help to people to boost their confidence, step out from their comfort zone, help them to set clear goals and in achieving them. She is there for all those who want to chose the path of personal and professional development, by boosting their self-confidence and encouraging them to take action and not to be afraid to follow their dreams. Krisztina offers one-to-one life coaching and personal development workshops. Krisztina's vision is to motivate and inspire as many woman and man as she can. " I will always do it my way, no matter what, And always keep moving forward, no matter what. Even if only I can see it, I will always follow my dream. My vision is to inspire, motivate people and to show them that if you find the reason "why", then you are able to change your life. And I will do it...MY way :)" Much love, Krisztina


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