How many times friends, family gives you advice without you even asking them? But have you ever wonder how people tend to give us advice? Why they want to give us advice? And how comes that they would never take their own advice? 🙂
Often they give advice because they care about us, they want to protect us, they want us not to fail. Right? But the thing is, that they give advice based on their experience, their lives and their values and beliefs. Sometimes, consciously or unconsciously people give advice because they care, they want us to do better, to succeed, or sometimes to hold us back. True or not?
But at the end of the day will be YOU who can chose to take the advice from outside or not. Think carefully about the advice given to you, either if you asked for it or it has been given for you for free. Is this what YOU want? Is this who YOU are? Is this YOU who can`t do this? Because if one couldn’t do it or didn’t had the courage to do it, does this mean that YOU can`t? Because one failed and was afraid to try again, does this mean that YOU will fail too?
Be quiet. Listen the advice. And based on what YOU want take action. Don’t think low on yourself. If someone did not succeed it doesn’t mean that YOU won`t succeed. Be determined, know your vision, have a clear goal on where you want to be, select from the advice you get the one that will work for you. Try out new things, what you have never done before, don’t stop because you were told that is risky. Risky for who?
Have the wisdom to listen to the right person. If someone who never had a business, never dealt with a situation tells you that is risky and hard to have and run a business, would you listen to them? How do they know? They didn’t even try. Choose carefully from who you take advice, even is a family member or a friend. 🙂
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