Imagine a 1st born girl in the family. Do you know what does it mean? Everyone expects you to be the best, do your best, be the smartest, the brightest, the nicest girl and you try really hard, you are doing the best you can to please everyone, do good to everyone, help everyone and embrace everyone. Except yourself. You raise the bar high. Then higher and higher. Then you will be exhausted, burned out. For what? You carry this baggage with you for almost 40 years. Taking care of everyone. Except you. You have the feeling that if you are not the best, the brightest, the smartest, if you don’t help everyone and do everything for people around you, you will be rejected. Then one day you realize that this is not love. Not an unconditional love. And you start to think. To wish for more. Dream about a different life. Wanting something just for yourself. In the beginning you feel ashamed, you think that you are selfish because you started to think about yourself first and then the others.
This was me. Full of doubt, lack of self-confidence, not happy about the way I look, the way I talk and walk. I had the strange feeling that everyone talks behind me, judging me, laughing on me. I never paid attention to the most important thing in my life: myself. All I knew was that I have to change. First of all myself. To change the way I was thinking. To love myself, respect myself, believe in myself. There is no one else like me. There is no one else like you. We are unique. With all our imperfections. This is what makes us to be perfect, just the way we are.
If I was able to change my life, you can too. You don’t need money for this!!!
This is the biggest limiting belief. If you are able to change your attitude, the way of your thinking, if you believe in yourself and you have the courage to take the first step to self-transformation in faith, the rest will follow, there is no doubt. Success will follow and money too. I use to think that everything is about money, everything moves around money. How wrong I was!! Tell me: do you need money to laugh? Do you need money to love unconditionally someone? Do you need money to breath in the fresh morning air? Do you need money to enjoy the sunshine? Do you need money to dance freely and tell me, do you need money to sing in the rain and feel extremely happy?
If you are able to change your old limiting beliefs into new, empowering beliefs, if you are able to change the way of how you think, to change your attitude, you decide to follow your dreams and to be happy, the money will follow too, this is just a bonus to all the blessings and good things what will come to you along the way.
I have all my thoughts and feelings on paper. Everything from the past 20 years. Took the shape of a book. Maybe soon I will have the courage to show it to the world. For you to learn. For you to change. To make the good decision. To avoid mistakes.
Until then: just simply believe in yourself and in your abilities. You can change your life. Reborn, like a phoenix. Stronger, wiser.
With love, Krisztina