A different one


What I’m going to say today it is a little bit different.

Have you ever had the feeling that you are at the wrong place and the wrong time? What I have learned during the past few years is, that you should always listen to your feelings, your emotions regarding a certain person, situation or place.

I made a choice to follow my dream, my road and I am doing the best I can to reach the goal. But sometimes, it happens that what I thought to be a good idea, the right person, the perfect situation, when I found myself into it, it proved to be the wrong one. Or not the kind of situation in which I would like to be, not the one I want.

Couple of years ago, I was very anxious, I didn’t dare to step out from an unpleasant situation, or just leave if I knew that I was on the wrong place, being afraid of what others will think of me, being afraid of being rude, impolite, being afraid that people will judge me, I was consumed by it. So, I just simply stayed there, feeling miserable, bored, nervous, not in my best mood, trying to please others, smiling when I didn’t felt like I want to smile, shaking hands when I knew that I’m not with the right people.

But nowadays, I pay more attention to my feelings, my emotions. I know exactly what I want, who I want to be and where I want to go. I gave up trying to please everybody around me, as my mental wellbeing, “me” is more important.  The only thing that really matters ow is how I feel and what I think about myself.  There is nothing wrong in admitting that you have made a mistake and you walk away from something what is not for you, there is nothing wrong in listening to your heart, to your emotions. I consider that I am a very sociable and friendly person, I love to learn new things all the time, but one thing is for sure: I know that what I want to learn will bring me closer to my goal. I am not trying to be perfect, I am aware that I cannot be good in everything, I know now, that I don’t need to know everything. It is perfectly fine for me if I know those things what are necessary to bring me closer to who I want to be and where I want to be.

In the past, I always had the urge to justify myself, my actions, my emotions to others. But nowadays, I say like this: the only person I need to give explanation and in front of whom I  need to justify my decisions it’s me. Only me. You my dear friend, don’t be afraid to do what is the best for you, don’t think on what people will say or think about you. It’s they’re problem, not yours.  As long as you know deep down in your heart that you are doing the right thing for you, you avoid stress and anxiety, you don’t have to give explanation to anyone. You are the master of your thoughts, your feelings, you are the creator of your own life, not anybody else. So if you feel good, you have the feeling of happiness, joy and you feel the energy flowing inside you when you are in a certain situation, when you talk to someone, then you are on the right track. But when you have the feeling that is something wrong, that you don’t like it, you don’t wish to be there, it gives you nervousness, you are bored, then just simply walk away.  Don’t try to achieve what you think that other people think that you should achieve. This doesn’t mean that you should stop caring about other people! It means that you should stop caring about what they THINK of you.

I wish you All a great day.




Published by Krisztina Konya

Krisztina is an author, blogger, company owner, life coach, mum and wife. With a strong academic background (BA (Hons) Business Management), she founded her company in 2018. The company provides consultancy services for those who would like to continue their studies and enrol into educational institutions in London. Beside building up the company image, on personal touch, Krisztina provides help to people to boost their confidence, step out from their comfort zone, help them to set clear goals and in achieving them. She is there for all those who want to chose the path of personal and professional development, by boosting their self-confidence and encouraging them to take action and not to be afraid to follow their dreams. Krisztina offers one-to-one life coaching and personal development workshops. Krisztina's vision is to motivate and inspire as many woman and man as she can. " I will always do it my way, no matter what, And always keep moving forward, no matter what. Even if only I can see it, I will always follow my dream. My vision is to inspire, motivate people and to show them that if you find the reason "why", then you are able to change your life. And I will do it...MY way :)" Much love, Krisztina

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