THE POWER OF GOAL SETTING

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Hello again my old and new dear Friends! Hope you had a great time during holidays, spend it with your loved ones, full of joy, laughter and happiness.

This is the beginning of a New Year, new opportunities and new possibilities. On New Year Eve, many of us make promises, set goals, wish for their dreams to come true in the new year, and many keep going for a while. As the days pass on, most of the people forget about what they wanted, or simply get caught up in the old routines and find it difficult to get out from their comfort zone, as a consequence they give up too soon and too easy, they forget about the goals and promises made to themselves for the new year. Sooner or later they will find good excuses why they can’t do this or that, in many cases the say ‘I don’t have the time’, ‘I don’t know how’, ‘it’s too difficult’, ‘I don’t have the resources’ and so on.

But when you set your goals and decide to follow your dreams, it should be not just on one evening of the year. You should remind yourself and push yourself towards your goals every day of the year. Make every day to count, make every day a little step forward and slowly you will see the results, you will move toward the success. The journey matters, not necessarily the goal. The beautiful and sometimes hard journey, during which you will change in many ways. Stay true to yourself, believe in yourself, build up your self-confidence, but don’t be arrogant. You will find strengths in yourself what you never thought that you have, life will bring in your life new people, new opportunities, all you have to do is to recognize the opportunity what has been given to you, as an answer to your wishes, grab it and make it blossom. The journey matters, no matter how easy or hard it will be. Step out of your comfort zone, that’s one of the limitations in your way to be successful, face your fears, work hard and change your mind setting. Stay positive, in everything try to find something positive, something to learn from, avoid negative people who will bring you down, surround yourself with likeminded, positive thinking people. Feel the joy, the happiness, it comes from within you. You are the only one who can make the decision in the beginning of your day, you can decide whether to be happy or angry and sad the whole day, frustrated and blaming everyone and everything for your circumstances.

It doesn’t matter if the goal you set for yourself is too high. There is no such thing as too big dreams, there are only limitations, created by your own old beliefs, your old habits, own fears. Don’t be afraid to dream big, go toward your every day, even where you are the only one who can see the dream. Make your goals to be specific and realistic, don’t set unachievable goals on a short term, as it will lead to disappointment. Choose your goals in a realistic way, make a list of what you want to achieve within one year, one month or today. Build in yourself the desire, the want, to achieve the goal, and you will find that possibilities will appear in your way. Believe in yourself and in the higher force of the universe, have faith and never let anyone to tell you that you can’t make it, you are not good enough, you aim too high. Never let negative people poison your mind with their limited mind set. You can’t change people, but you can change yourself. You will see the world and everything in it from a different perspective, you will find something beautiful in it in every step of the way, will find every day something to be grateful for.

No dream is too big, no goal is too high is you find in yourself the power to follow the dream. Be brave and never give up, even when it seems hard. Your mind is powerful, use it wisely, learn to focus on your goal and you will succeed.

You see, I myself sometimes face difficulties and situations in my life what looks like are blocking me, but the real strengths is to find the way to keep on going, maybe change a little bit the direction, but continuously moving forward. Don’t overthink, as overthinking may create problems what are not even there, keep it simple, and move forward.

Saying all this, I wish you all that may all your dreams come true in this New Year. Believe in yourself and maybe seek for help and advice whenever you feel insecure or down. You will find people around you, willing to help, or maybe you will find the answer within yourself if you pay attention to your inner voice. If you want to make a difference, if you are willing to try, maybe I can help you. Get in touch with and we can discuss, maybe even we can work together, learn from each other. Send me a message on my website and we can have a chat.

Love, Cristina

Author: Cristina Konya

I am a believer. I have faith. I know that happiness comes from inside. I've changed and I enjoy the benefits of changing my mind set and changing my attitude. I am grateful every day for all that is already mine or it's on its way to me. Are you ready to change your life too? Get in touch with me by sending me an email to Cristina.konya@gmail.com and we will find out together if we are a good match and we can work together or what are the options. There is always a choice to make. Chose to live your life as you always wanted. Love, Cristina.

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