Now, you see, motivational speakers, influencers on social media, authors, psychologists, spiritual leaders and successful entrepreneurs are out there (many of them), trying to “help” you to be successful, showing you the way, telling you how and what to do in order to be healthy, wealthy and happy.

But the reality is, that your life only depends on YOU. It only depends on you if you will be successful or not. It all depends on what YOU WANT.

I know exactly what I want! Do you know?

I start now all over my life, again, as now I know EXACTLY what I want, I know where I want to be and I realized that it only depends on me if I will get there or not. I decided to not let anyone to bring me down again, don’t let anyone to make me feel insecure in what I am doing. If my dream is big? Yes, it is. And you should DREAM big as well, nothing it’s impossible. The only one who can limit your possibilities is YOU!

It is in your power to change your life and to live the life you always wanted, by changing your attitude.

In my life there have been many stages, from being homeless on the streets of Budapest, selling all I have to get a hotel room and wash my cloth, to look clean and decent and to get a job. I have been working 16 hours a day for many years, as I needed the money for food, rent and clothing. I was desperate, sad and mad on the world, on my family, on my friends. I was mad even on myself, how can I be so stupid. Later on, when in London, I was renting out cheap, disastrous looking rooms with no heating and dirty matrasses for horrible prices, as I needed the money. The money was not enough, I hated what I was doing and I was unhappy. I knew that I have to change my life. But I had the same wrong attitude toward success, toward life. I used to complain about everything, about how miserable I feel, nothing worked out. I even started my own cleaning business. I failed of course. Again. Because I didn’t know what I was doing. I was doing all wrong.

I was only dreaming about success, about financial freedom, about wealth and happiness, expensive holidays and sunny places. I knew that I want more. I know that I deserve more. YOU deserve more, you deserve the best as well!

I realized that I have to improve myself, I need to gain more knowledge, I need more confidence and good relationships if I want to succeed. I have started college, I performed quite well. And I loved every minute of it. Then I have started to study at the University. But again, I realized that I want something more. Something better. You see, I have made the same mistake like many of you. You climb a mountain, you put effort and hard work in everything you do and when you reach the top, looking around, you realize that the view it’s ok, but it’s still not what you want. So, I have learned another lesson. YOU HAVE TO KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU WANT AND WHAT YOU WANT TO ACHIEVE! You have to know exactly what your goals are.

I wanted more than that. I wanted something more than a qualification or a degree.

And finally I reached that point in my life when I knew exactly what I want!

Most of the people, including myself a couple of months ago, don’t know how to prioritize, and how to set goals. Long term goals. For yourself. Not for anyone else. No one cares about you, no one cares about your problem, about your life. Everybody is too busy with their own life, their own problems, own path.

Finally I knew exactly what I want. But there was a problem. I was afraid. But you know what? I was wrong. Afraid of what? Of failure? Really? I have failed so many times in my life, I have started everything all over again in my life so many times. So, I realized, that there is nothing to be afraid of. It was in my mind. The fear of failure. Practically I had nothing to lose, so why I am afraid of?

So, now, I take everything from the scratch and with the strong believe that this time I will succeed, with a changed attitude I have started my life again. I can, and you can, build up the life you always wanted, it is a matter of decision making, changed attitude toward problems and obstacles.

One might say if you were born poor you will be poor your whole life and if you were born rich you will be rich your whole life. But I would say, that with a changed attitude toward your life, success, money, happiness, wealth, you are able to change your life. It will be easy? I never said that. But it’s not impossible.

Start to live your dream, make every day a small step to reach your goal, never give up, never look back and never be afraid. My mentors are people I have never meet in person and probably I will never meet them. But that’s ok, as I can learn a lot from them. Choose a mentor, chose a person you admire and do what he/she had done to be successful. Prove wrong all those who don’t believe in you, prove wrong all those who said that you can’t make it. Yes, you can!

Change your attitude and your life will change!

Love, Cristina

Author: Cristina Konya

I am a believer. I have faith. I know that happiness comes from inside. I've changed and I enjoy the benefits of changing my mind set and changing my attitude. I am grateful every day for all that is already mine or it's on its way to me. Are you ready to change your life too? Get in touch with me by sending me an email to and we will find out together if we are a good match and we can work together or what are the options. There is always a choice to make. Chose to live your life as you always wanted. Love, Cristina.

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