People have a busy life. People are selfish, preoccupied only with themselves, people don’t want to listen to your stories, they are not interested in your dreams and what you want, people are interested in themselves, all what they want is someone to listen to them, to listen to their stories, about their dreams and accomplishments.
This is another golden rule what you should apply, you should implement in your life. Be a good listener. Motivators, leaders and successful people are good listeners. Listen with all your heart, pay all your attention to the person who is talking to you. If you are sincerely interested in his saying, you listen to the story what is told to you and you give your full attention, I am telling you, you already won a friend, a business partner, someone who will offer their help to you, without you even ask for it. People love to talk about themselves, their needs. Be a good listener and you will win friends. Having friends, maintaining good relationships with everybody is one of the keys to success. Don’t criticize, as everybody wants to feel important, to feel appreciated. Listen to their sayings, appreciate them. Listening to their stories and showing sincere appreciation can change one’s life, and yours as well.
Be a good listener and your life will change.
Love, Cristina
